Jerk off instruction — The most popular “fetish”?

Sara in a black bra and mesh crop top with caption "YOUR NEW JOI RULES". Jerk off instruction vide.
One of my recent jerk off instruction videos, “Your New JOI Rules”
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Jerk off instruction — The most popular fetish, and how I really feel about it!

It was the focus of my first ever custom video with dialogue. It’s an extremely common request for Kik sessions. It leads to some of the most popular videos. What’s the big deal about jerk off instruction (JOI)?

My experiences with jerk off instruction

As I discussed in my article on how I got started with online sex work, the first custom video I took that included dialogue was a jerk off instruction video! But even before that, it was a very common request. I turned down requests for JOI videos all the time.

Whenever I advertise for Kik sessions, I inevitably get a ton of jerk off instruction sessions. When I offer phone calls, I get lots of guys wanting JOI as well — though I don’t always do it on my NiteFlirt calls. Why? I do female domination calls on NiteFlirt. And I personally do not categorize jerk off instruction as female domination. Not by itself, anyway. It kinda bores me after a bit, honestly!

Even though I have tons and tons of JOI videos under my belt now and available for purchase, it’s still an incredibly common custom video request. And really, I don’t mind that too much. They’re typically very simple to film, and I know they will resell well! Many of my bestsellers, such as Two Orgasm JOI, are jerk off instruction videos.

A 16 minute long jerk off instruction video, “Two Orgasm JOI”
A 16 minute long jerk off instruction video, “Two Orgasm JOI”
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Why is jerk off instruction so extremely popular?

So, why is it so damned popular?

I don’t have a penis myself to be jerking off, but I can speculate! If you’d like to share your opinion in the comments, especially as someone who enjoys jerk off instruction yourself, I will definitely be reading them and would love to know what you think!

My suspicion is that it just has to do with your normal, everyday male obsession with penis. No, really. Men are obsessed with their penises. Anyone who has ever had to deal with unsolicited dick pics on the regular would agree. Many women are constantly spammed with dick pics, because guys think that “wow, I love my penis, I bet she will too!” (spoiler alert: no.)

So, penis obsession is real. I’ll go more into that another day… How nice does it feel when someone is really interested in something you care a lot about? I think jerk off instruction is like that, especially when done live (Kik sessions) or it’s personal (custom videos)! You have a sexy woman like myself in front of you, talking about your dick, and telling you what to do with it. And then when there are two women in front of you (featuring TeenyGinger), telling you what to do? It’s practically game over, boys, y’all just lose your minds! I might think it’s a little silly, but I can understand the appeal.

Another girl/girl jerk off instruction video, this one featuring dice. Filmed with Charlie Sage, aka qtwabooty.
Another girl/girl jerk off instruction video, this one featuring dice. Filmed with Charlie Sage, aka qtwabooty.
10:41, $14.99. Purchase it from any of the following sites!
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Is it a fetish?

We’ve established why jerk off instruction is so popular, and how prevalent it really is. But is it actually a fetish? As I mentioned before, it’s a very frequent request I get in female domination phone calls… So many people must think it’s a fetish, right?

Personally, I would have to disagree. I do not believe it is a fetish. Almost everyone really wants something more similar to what I consider jerk off encouragement, which is more gentle. They just want the sexy woman telling them to touch their penis. They don’t necessarily want to be controlled, and they don’t want to do anything taboo.

Let’s take a look at one definition of the word fetish:

A form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc.

https://en.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/fetish

It is true that the gratification derived from jerk off instruction is typically linked to a particular part of the body; the penis. But is it abnormal? With the extreme popularity of it, and practically no stigma surrounding it, I would have to argue that JOI does not actually qualify as a fetish.

That being said… Jerk off instruction will still continue to be an extremely popular request, and I’m sure I will continue to put out lots of videos in that category, such as an Edging JOI!

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This Post Has 2 Comments

  1. It’s popular because too many young males sit all day in front of a screen and jerk off to porn. They are so cut off from real people that they want to watch someone talking to them. The girls that do joi , do just that. They talk to them , either humiliating them for what they are or encouraging them to cum. One way or the other , there is at least some interaction – point of view – roleplay , and that is something that mainstream porn does not provide. Moreover, doing joi is cheap for the content producers. Anyone can do it, all they need is a cam , a room, and their body. That’s why there’s a vast cottage industry of cam girls doing it.

  2. I just like it because I am into dirty talk and don’t want to watch girls getting fucked all the time.

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