Sizing for Sissy Panties

To figure out what size you’ll wear in panties, you need to take some measurements and look up a size chart! Here’s an example size chart from Aerie, one of my favorite stores for sissy panties! Once you have your measurements, you can easily see what size you’ll need. It is definitely worth taking the time to get your measurements instead of just guessing at size.

Type of Fabric

Satin, cotton, lace… There are lots of options for panty fabrics! But for sissy panties, I have two strong preferences every time: lace for sexy times, cotton for practical times. All sissies should have a couple pairs of both types! Typically these will want to align with the style you pick, as well.

Panty Style

As we see in the diagram above, there are many styles to choose from as well! I always recommend thongs and cheekies to my sissies. The cheekies are best as cotton panties to wear during the day at work, and the thongs should be lacy and super sexy!

Color for Sissy Panties

This one should be pretty obvious — look for sexy colors! Pinks, reds, and purples. I’ll occasionally allow a light blue or white as well. Black is usually boring, and yellow is rarely flattering.

Sinful Sissy Club

If you’re a sissy who found this information useful, I would hope you’re already a member of my mailing list and my sinful sissy club! If you’re not, here’s where you can sign up: https://thepurplehailstorm.com/club/

I can be found on social media, as well as a bunch of clip stores, all listed below! If you enjoyed this article, please be sure to leave a comment, join my mailing list and get a free video, share it on social media, or even make a purchase!

I released a video recently, titled “Inferior Bitch”. This was a custom video, but I had a lot of fun filming it! More importantly, it was one of my first videos really focusing on female supremacy, with a nice dose of humiliation along with it.

Here was the description for that video:

You are a weak, inferior, useless beta bitch. You don’t deserve to be in the presence of superior and gorgeous women like myself. All you’re capable of doing is jerking off in a corner. The very least you could do is kneel and worship me. But even then, you have nothing to offer me.

The intent was for the viewer to be VERY humiliated, and for the viewer to know that he is worthless in comparison to beautiful women. That women are superior to him in every way possible, and that’s just the way it always will be!

What is female supremacy?

Here is how Vice defines female supremacy:

Female supremacy is the belief that women are inherently superior to men, and we should build a society that reflects that. Most of the people who espouse it, perhaps unsurprisingly, are really into BDSM.

vice.com

While this definition touches the very basics of it, it does not quite dive into the motivations of female supremacy.

In my experience as a Domme, this fetish is very frequently tied in with humiliation. Men want to be humiliated for who they are, and of course they know at least something about the history of sexism. They feel that they deserve to be humiliated for this!

Some men are aware of their male privilege, and use female supremacy as a way to counter that. They actively reject their privilege, instead deciding all women are above them.

Personally, I quite enjoy it! From multiple perspectives, even: the selfish one, because I obviously benefit from it; the academic one, given my background in social sciences; and the social one, knowing that all my gal-friends and I are among the elite.

If you enjoyed this post…

I can be found on social media, as well as a bunch of clip stores, all listed below! If you enjoyed this article, please be sure to leave a comment, join my mailing list and get a free video, share it on social media, or even make a purchase!

The exact percentage of your ManyVids payout will depend on the type of service/what function is being used. These numbers do change from time to time, but they are recent as of April 2020!

80% Payout

Custom videos, tips (either sent through Make it Rain or FundMe), Store Items, texting, video chat, phone calls, and MV Crush are all paid out at 80%.

60% Payout

Videos from your store and contest votes are paid out at 60%.

Exceptions for ManyVids Payout

Vid sales made on your first MV Anniversary (anniversary from making your account) are paid out at 100% – this only happens once!

Blackmail Fantasy Is A Popular Fetish, Indeed

“Goddess, I want you to blackmail me. Take everything. Ruin me.”

“My wife would divorce me if she knew about this. I want you to tell her if I don’t pay.”

“Is your blackmail real? Or are you just pretending?”

Blackmail seems to be one of the most popular fetishes among the femdom clip creation scene, with no intentions of slowing down any time soon! And it definitely seems to attract a large audience of blackmail fantasy junkies, in a sense.

What is it that attracts so many people to this fetish?

Some speculate that it’s merely the thrill. A thrill just like many others: skydiving, voyeurism, or even auto erotic asphyxiation. The thrill that if the blackmail really happens, and if you don’t do what you’ve supposed to, your life will more or less be ruined.

Blackmail can provide encouragement for some to push their limits, when maybe they would have chickened out otherwise. I’ve used blackmail with submissives myself to help them suck cock for the first time, send larger tributes, or become a proper anal slut!

Blackmail Fantasy, or Blackmail Reality?

Some clip creators specifically say that it is all fantasy. Others specifically say that it is not just a fantasy, such as in my own clip, “Blackmail is not just a fantasy”.

Miss Faith Rae has a wonderful article about this as well, going a bit more into the ethics and legalities of blackmail. Since she did such a great job of covering those, I won’t attempt to top that!

Instead, I will discuss a little bit more about how I handle blackmail in my own play, and I’ll let you decide if it’s reality, or blackmail fantasy.

Required information from new blackmail slaves

In order to blackmail someone, I need information to blackmail them with. So I initially require all blackmail slaves to send the contact information for a wife, boss, business partner, or similar. Someone who makes this a high stakes game. I also will get their legal name, of course.

Many slaves lie about this information, of course. For them it really is blackmail fantasy only, and they don’t want to give out their legal information. And that is fair. That’s what they were looking for all along, so they’re just playing safely!

However, if someone is being… Problematic, in a sense… I have been known to discreetly verify contact information and demand a copy of ID. Take that as you will.

That being said, I also ask for a safe word.

BDSM play often works with one of two tenets: Safe, Sane, and Consensual (SSC), or Risk Aware Consensual Kink (RACK). Blackmail fantasy usually practices RACK, because giving out real information might not be considered safe and sane! So it’s necessary to be aware of the risks, while still always keeping it consensual. A safe word helps ensure that consent is never violated, even when situations and play becomes very intense.

I have decided to participate in this month’s week-long contest, which is known as the Fall For Me contest!

As part of this contest, I’m offering some special sales, which can only be used by sending a paid contest vote.

Here’s the link to vote for me in the contest!

The Rewards

$10 – Nude fan sign pic (your name or username, written on a piece of paper!)

Premade Video Sales

$10 – Any 1 video

$25 – Any 3 videos

$200 – ALL of my current videos on ManyVids, over 200!

Custom Video Sales

All custom videos ordered through contest votes include full face! You can add name use to any of them for just $50 extra.

$100 – 8-10 minute video

$150 – 13-15 minute video

$200 – 20-22 minute video

Today, I’d like to address one of my favorites: coffee creamer!

It’s as simple as it sounds. All you have to do is make a cup of coffee, then cum into it!

Why I Love This Method

There are a few reasons why coffee creamer is one of my main go-to’s when I’m giving cum eating instructions.

1. It’s easy! I work with a lot of CEI beginners. Drinking their cum from a cup of coffee may have fewer mental road blocks than eating it out of their hand.
2. It’s perfect for discreet play. Want to cum into your thermos and then bring that to work? You can be sipping on cum at the office, no one will ever know!
3. Almost everyone has coffee in their house. If you don’t have coffee, tea will do just fine too. This makes it plenty convenient as a way to make cum eating more fun!

I talk about this method even more in my video about it, which you can find here on ManyVids!

Other Favorite Cum Eating Methods

Obviously, I have a few more CEI favorites up my sleeve. The best way to find out more of them is to check out my CEI videos on my clip sites, or have a Kik session/phone call with me!

Besides cumming into your cup of coffee, I have other ways I like to incorporate CEI and food products! Salad dressing, ice cubes, soup and more. I have been thinking about making a whole video series of my favorite CEI methods! What do you think? Let me know in the comments if you think I should film more videos with my favorite methods!

Where to find more of me

I can be found on social media, as well as a bunch of clip stores, all listed below! If you enjoyed this article, please be sure to leave a comment, join my mailing list and get a free video, share it on social media, or even make a purchase!

10: Birthday orgasm

I filmed this video on my 21st birthday, in 2018! It is indeed true that I hadn’t done any penetration for quite a while; it felt amazing!

It’s my birthday! What better way to celebrate than with an orgasm? Showing full face and wearing nothing but some cute thigh highs the entire time, I talk through how I’m going to use my dildo vibrator to get off, and it’s my first time doing any penetration in so long! I orgasm while the dildo is still in me, letting you see it all, and giggle about it afterwards.

ManyVids – $10.99

9: Rainy morning orgasms together

It really was raining out when I filmed this! The dull weather was my inspiration! I was actually considering filming it a few days prior, but the weather was so bad that then the power went out.

It’s such a cold and rainy morning… Do you want to maybe warm up by getting off together? I think that’d be really nice! I strip out of my cozy pajamas for you and use my vibrator so we can both cum together while in bed.

ManyVids – $9.99

8: “Welcome Home” dildo ride

I loved this custom video idea! I felt so sensual and wanted, and it was a really fun GFE style roleplay.

This was a custom video, and the name “Steve” is used throughout. Wearing my silky purple robe, I welcome you home, and reveal that I had a little surprise in mind for you… I’m going to ride you for a bit, then you’re going to fuck me until we both cum together! Sound good?

ManyVids – $9.99

7: Strip, tit play, and cumming for you

This was one of the first videos I filmed with full face, a year ago!

Another great masturbation video with full face! I start out dressed and strip down completely for you, spend lots of time playing with my tits, and finally use a vibrator to get off.

ManyVids – $14.99

6: Male and female anatomy

I had so much fun with this. And yes, I did my research and printed out some anatomy diagrams to prepare! It’s a long video, but it’s sooo good.

This video is split into two scenes: A lesson on male anatomy, and a lesson on female anatomy. In male anatomy, I discuss the parts of the penis and quiz you on them. And of course, you can’t ignore some JOI from your teacher to help better understand the lesson! In female anatomy, I want to get a little more hands on, so I undress and show you various parts of the female body, discuss some of what feels pleasurable, and finish off with a live demonstration of a female orgasm!

ManyVids – $17.99

5: Anal training #1

Over a year since my last anal experience! I think I did great, though. This is one of those videos where I always get aroused again when I watch the preview…

I talk about how long it has been since the last time I did any sort of anal, and my anal experiences before that… It’s been over a year, so I’m quite nervous! I get myself lubed up and use a butt plug to start, thrusting it in and out and loving the way it feels. Eventually I grab my vibrator so that I can even get off while my ass is plugged, loving every moment of it!

ManyVids – $14.39

4: Riding my friend

Normally I struggle a LOT with long riding, but I did it! This video was 20 minutes long, and I had a lot of fun with it. These GFE style custom videos are always amazing.

We just got back from the movies, it was kind of a date, but we weren’t really sure… Well, maybe you weren’t very sure. I knew exactly what I planned to get out of this date! I intentionally didn’t wear panties, and was trying to tease you throughout the date. When we got back to my house, I ‘accidentally’ start opening my legs a little too much with my short dress on, and you get some flashes of my pussy. This gives you a boner, so I offer to help you out with it! There’s no need to be shy, just come with me to the bedroom. In the bedroom, I give you a handjob, before moving on to riding your cock in multiple positions, and ultimately you cum while fucking me doggystyle.

ManyVids – $17.99

3: Teacher demonstrates how to please a woman

Everyone always says I have an innocent face, and look like I could be a teacher. So why not roleplay as one? Everyone could use a lesson on the clitoris!

I’m ready to teach our Health class, but you’re the only student who showed up today! The lesson was planned to be partner work, but I guess we can work together, right? Today I’m going to teach you about how to please a woman. I’ve seen you with that girlfriend of yours, and I want to make sure you know what to do to make her feel great. We go over how to take a bra off, how to find the clitoris, tips for giving oral, how to use a vibrator on a woman, and what to do when she’s close to an orgasm! I make sure to model the use of a vibrator for you, demonstrating some different techniques with it, and help you identify when I’m about to orgasm and what to do during it.

ManyVids – $14.99

2: How many times can I cum?

Sooo many orgasms in 10 minutes! I loved being able to do a “part 2” of this video. Both versions have been very popular, for good reason!

Two years after my first many-orgasm video, I do a second one, this time with full face! This time I go at it for about 10 minutes, letting you see all the details. Orgasm after orgasm, you experience it all with me! So… How many times do you think I came?

ManyVids – $14.99

1: Fucking the cheerleader

I will never stop loving this video. It will ALWAYS be my number one. It’s probably the best video I’ve ever filmed, at all, to date. It has everything. I poured my soul into it. I learned color correcting for it. So many different scenes. 7 hours of rendering. So, so worth it, though!

This video seriously has everything you could want! So many of your fantasies with me, brought all together in a story line that you can’t resist. First, we’re talking after cheerleading practice, and I just need to stretch a little in the hall since I’m so stiff from that workout. Oh gosh, are you getting hard looking at me? No way! Okay, fine, come with me to my room and maybe I’ll show you a bit more… Once we’re in there, I show you how I like to get off wearing my outfit, letting you watch from behind while I use a vibrator until orgasm. Now it’s your turn! I get onto the floor so I can give you a handjob, but eventually I decide it’s best if I strip and give you a titjob instead. Ultimately, we both want you in me — so I ride you for a while, using my vibrator while I do so we can both cum together.

ManyVids – $19.99

A cock rate is basically what it sounds like — I look at some photos of your dick, and tell you what I think! Typically I cover the size of it, including length and girth, shape, and grooming.

I also like to talk about your photography, so I can teach you to take the best possible dick pic!

Types of cock rates

Typically, there are 3 major types of cock rates: Text only, Kik videos, or downloadable.

A text only rate is exactly what it sounds like: Your dick rate is written out! There are no images or videos accompandied.

A Kik cock rate can vary a little. Sometimes it will be live videos (15 seconds or less) sent through Kik, other times it will be longer videos (up to 2 minutes each). Personally, I prefer to do the longer videos. My “Quick Kik Cock Rates” are usually 3-4 minutes long, sent through those longer videos.

Finally, the downloadable rates are my most popular! Filmed in 1080p, a downloaded rate is typically longer than a Kik rate, and is one continuous video; no need to stop every 2 minutes!

For my downloadable rates, I also like to include name use and an outfit request, for free! They are typically 7-10 minutes.

Common cock rate add-ons

There are many available add-ons for cock rates, some of which I offer myself! I will also mention some that are commonly available, although I personally don’t offer it.

Nudity is one of the biggest! Some sellers always include nudity in their rates, others do not. I include it in my downloadable dick rates, but it’s an add-on for a Kik rate.

HD video is commonly included in a downloadable cock rate, but not guaranteed. Mine are always HD!

My cock rates are all either standard or humiliation. I consider humiliation to be an add-on, since it’s not the default option, but there’s no additional fee for it! Many offer cock worship as well; I do not.

Finally, masturbation and/or JOI during the dick rate is a popular add-on! I do not offer this.

How to send photos

For a downloadable dick rate, I will typically ask you to upload your photos to a private album on Imgur.com. I’ll want 2-3 photos from different angles!

For a Kik rate, generally it’s fine for you to just send the photos right there in the Kik app. It does not matter if they are live or were taken previously. The most important part is to still give me a couple of different angles!

Get your own professional cock rate!

Do you think you want your own professional cock evaluation? Check out my Reddit wiki for the most current prices and details on what I’m offering, as well as the available payment methods!

As of right now, September 2020, I’m offering Quick Kik Cock Rates at $35, and downloadable rates at $65.

MODELS: If you have not yet signed up for SextPanther, I strongly encourage you to do so now! It takes a couple of days to be approved, and the application is super easy. If you sign up, please consider using my referral link

In this blog post, I will not attempt to go over all the intricacies of SextPanther. Although it’s simpler to get started on and master than many other adult sites, there’s still a lot of nitty gritty! Instead, I will go over lots of tips and tricks that can really make a difference in your income.

Some of what I cover here includes how to sign up (and increase your chances of being approved), how to get customers from their internal traffic, and how to really get the most out of your conversations!

Signing Up For SextPanther

The sign up process to become a model is much easier than most adult sites! All you need to provide is a stage name, email address, phone number, and some links to your social media or cam profile.

Click here to access the sign up page!

The email address and phone number you use to sign up will be kept private. That being said, I always recommend using a separate email address for sex work. It’s so easy to make a new phone number on apps such as TextNow or TextPlus!

If you’re looking for a link to sign up, this one uses my referral code and brings you straight to the “Become a Model” page! You can find the application at the bottom of the page, and it can be completed in less than two minutes.

Social Media Requirement

The social media requirement does come as a surprise to some. Unfortunately, SextPanther does not allow models who are brand new to sex work.

You must have a following somewhere, such as Twitter, Instagram, or a cam site. Followings from Reddit or clip sites such as ManyVids may be acceptable.

I know a handful of models who have been rejected by SextPanther because they do not have enough of a following. I also know that most of those who continually tried and applied multiple times, while building up their social media, were eventually approved!

If you were denied, it is definitely worth trying again in a week or so. Make sure you’re getting some followers on Twitter, Instagram, Reddit, or a cam site.

I’ve heard that using a referral code can make it easier to be accepted, though this hasn’t been officially confirmed. If you have a referral code from a friend, you’re probably somewhat established in the industry already!

Everyone I know who was rejected the first time, but then eventually accepted, used a referral code for the second or third applications.

Getting Customers

There are two main sources for the customers you’ll have on SextPanther: Those who find you on the model pages within the website, and those who have found you elsewhere and follow you onto SextPanther!

Capitalizing On SextPanther Internal Traffic

It’s very common for customers to search by the “Online Now” page; I believe it’s actually the default search! Luckily for us, it’s extremely easy to be shown on the top of it and get seen first! The most recently active models will be shown at the top of this page.

This is one tip that can really change the entire game on SextPanther, but not it’s not made obvious! There are two main ways to show up as recently active: Signing into the site, and sending a message.

You may notice that when you’re in the middle of a conversation, you get way more new adds; sending messages shows you as recently active and puts you at the top of “Online Now”!

What do you do if no one is texting you, and you want to be shown as active so you can get some new chats? Just sign out. And then sign back in. It really is that simple!

Whenever I’m trying to hustle SextPanther and want some new chats from their internal traffic, I make sure to sign out and back in every 10-15 minutes. It makes a huge difference, and is so easy to do!

Bringing Your Own Traffic to SextPanther

While SextPanther does have its own internal traffic, you might want to bring your own traffic to make even more money!

Although I probably get most of my customers internally, there are a fair amount who find me on Reddit or Twitter and love the idea of getting to text me, so they follow my links to SextPanther.

The most obvious way to bring your own traffic over is by promoting on social media.

I usually do this through Twitter, and occasionally Reddit. I’m sure it could be done on Instagram too, if you have an active account there!

I like to schedule out my promo posts for Twitter, and I have some that link to my SextPanther account.

When advertising SextPanther to your own audience, I always recommend mentioning their free credits! Every new customer on SextPanther gets five free credits, which is equivalent to $5. This could equal a couple messages back and forth or a free pic! Those five free credits are still paid out to you as normal, so there’s no reason not to encourage it.

Other Tips

Phone Number

SextPanther gives you the option to charge for your phone number, or to make it free. As a reminder, this is not your real phone number! It’s a number that SextPanther relays calls and texts through.

I always recommend making your number free. Customers will always have to pay to message you.

If you are a very well established model in the industry with a large following, you might be able to get away with charging for your number through SextPanther. However, the internal traffic is likely not willing to pay for it!

Keeping Customers Engaged

We get paid on SextPanther for texts, photos/videos (media), tips, and phone calls.

Most models make the bulk of their money from texts and media! You should always engage with your customers in relevant, interesting conversations. If they mention interest in a particular fetish, try to ask questions about it! You could also go into a relevant role play!

Some customers will be more interested in casual conversation; in which case, I go along with that. I don’t try to force sexting or sexual chat, I just go with whatever they’re in the mood for!

You’ll want to send pictures and videos to make money a lot faster, but you’ll want to do it at an appropriate time. If you’re in the middle of sexting, definitely send media. If you’re having a more casual chat, you’ll have to use your best judgement!

Pay attention to if this customer has opened the previous media you’ve sent, and use that information to help decide.

I have some customers who will open every single picture I send, even at random times, and others who never open a single one.

Finally, use mass messages to your advantage! There are a lot of potential strategies here, but the main goal is to usually get conversations going.

I usually like to send an emoji or cute little message along with a picture or video. Asking an interesting question or sending a sexy quip may be good strategies as well! You’ll want to be careful to not overdo these mass messages, though. Too many will feel spammy, and customers may remove you from their contacts.

Also, there is a threshold to how many times you can message a customer without response before they’re automatically removed from your contacts. At the time of this writing, I believe it is two or three messages without response.

Phone Calls

In addition to texting and sending media, SextPanther does offer the ability to receive phone calls. I occasionally have customers asking if they can call me, but it’s not at all a necessary to do well there!

I’ve only ever taken one call, because usually I’m most active on SextPanther during times when I’m not available to be talking out loud.

One thing I do love about their phone call feature is the minimum length! This means a customer can’t call, have a thirty second chat, and then hang up leaving you with a very small payment for that call. Even if they still hang up before the minimum length, you will still receive payment as if they were on the phone long enough.

Summary

So, sign up for SextPanther (preferably using my referral code! <3), sign out and back in often to show up as recently active, promote it on your social media, and have some engaging conversations!

SextPanther can be a fantastic source of income for sex workers, and a little bit of knowledge on how to make the best of the site can really amplify that!

If you’re interested in learning about other platforms to work on, I do have a list of my recommended sites for sex workers here!

I hope you enjoyed this blog! If you’d like to read more in-depth about SextPanther, or would like me to discuss another website, please let me know! I read every comment here

Why are jerk off instruction videos so popular? Two months ago, I wrote my first blog post on jerk off instruction. I discussed whether I thought it qualified as a fetish, and what I believe makes it so popular! This post got a fair bit of attention, and some comments on Reddit about it as well. I would like to now address these comments and continue the discussion!

Two common themes emerged from the comments: Wanting a variety in your porn, and a desire for intimacy!

Porn Variety

I first noticed a few comments that people just wanted something different in their porn!

“Regular porn is usually pretty boring at this point.”

https://www.reddit.com/r/JerkingInstruction/comments/bknazh/i_wrote_an_article_as_a_content_creator_talking/emvrhq4/

This was a bit surprising to me, but certainly interesting! “Regular porn” has become boring. For the purposes of this discussion, I’m going to interpret “Regular porn” as mainstream, boy/girl vanilla sex porn, though I know it can be much more than that! This interpretation does require me to take a bit of a different perspective than usual. As a content creator, I usually view my own jerk off instruction videos as pretty regular! I makes lots of them, they more or less appeal to the masses, aren’t very niche, and jerk off instruction videos aren’t exactly hard to find.

“I just like it because I am into dirty talk and don’t want to watch girls getting fucked all the time.”

https://thepurplehailstorm.com/jerk-off-instruction-the-most-popular-fetish/

If I were looking at only these two comments, I would start to wonder why JOI fills the void for more variety. Why not something more specific, such as a fetish? It’s a common joke among the internet that everyone starts off with mainstream porn, and gradually progresses to more and more extreme things to satisfy their needs and not get bored! So why turn to JOI?

Turns out, the intimacy of jerk off instruction videos is why.

The Intimacy of JOI

JOI videos seem to fulfill a rather unique need — the need for intimacy, human connection, and something that feels more personal.

“. . . what I can say about myself is that my favorite part of JOI is the intimacy . . . she’s talking directly to the viewer and making a temporary connection that isn’t there in other videos.”

https://www.reddit.com/r/joi/comments/bk7rzz/i_wrote_an_article_as_a_content_creator_talking/emf5wer/

I believe that every JOI I have filmed meets this intimacy to some degree. They are always in the style of me talking directly to the viewer, focusing on them as my only concern in the moment. I try to let that connection feel as real and authentic as possible.

“They want to watch someone talking to them . . .One way or the other , there is at least some interaction – point of view – roleplay , and that is something that mainstream porn does not provide.”

https://thepurplehailstorm.com/jerk-off-instruction-the-most-popular-fetish/

I think this quote helps explain why turning to more extreme videos or specific fetishes does not satisfy people when looking for something beyond mainstream porn. It’s rare for videos with multiple performers to be in the style of addressing the viewer. There certainly are some exceptions to this, though, such as my Two Girl JOI with Cum Countdown, or the Cum on Our Tits JOI! Many fetish videos are filmed simply for a voyeur perspective — getting to watch the action, but never being addressed.

“The intimacy of JOI is a big part, the breaking of the 4th wall provides a pseudo customization to the viewer and that is more stimulating than watching some dude’s ass as he pounds into woman.”

https://www.reddit.com/r/joi/comments/bk7rzz/i_wrote_an_article_as_a_content_creator_talking/emgvlwp/

I’m really appreciating opening up this conversation, because this is giving me some great food for thought! Almost all of the videos I film tend to… Essentially smash the fourth wall into tiny pieces. I am constantly talking to the viewer, including them in the fun, even if it’s not JOI — for example, my roleplay videos almost always share this style as well. I suspect this is something that may be more limited to solo, independent content creators. It’s obvious while looking at that now, but not something I had ever previously considered.

“Yeah I agree more with this interpretation. JOI makes the porn feel more interactive and immediate, like there’s an exchange between you and the performer. I find it’s much easier to focus on the actual act of masturbation, to really get into it when I’m trying to follow a beautiful woman’s instructions rather than just mindlessly pumping to strangers fucking.”

https://www.reddit.com/r/joi/comments/bk7rzz/i_wrote_an_article_as_a_content_creator_talking/emfxvc8/

It makes sense how immersive porn is so much easier to get off to! There is less temptation to get distracted or just zone out, when you’re being talked to directly!

Final Thoughts

“It feels like there is a connection between the model and I. And that makes it interesting, and sexier. I think that plays a part for a lot of us even if we dont realize it. Getting a connection that were not getting through our sex lives or lack there of.

https://www.reddit.com/r/JerkingInstruction/comments/bknazh/i_wrote_an_article_as_a_content_creator_talking/emvrhq4/

So, what do you think? What it is that draws you to JOI? Do you like something new? The intimacy? Do you like a woman talking about your penis? Do you prefer to buy customs where your name is used? Let’s continue this discussion even more!